Reality vs Myth 21 Secular Days

The home fires now burn bright in my solitary hearth. Sister Morphine having faced her soulful task with alacrity dismissed the gathered shadow-monger who as chorused fell silent and melted faraway in landscape cruel; at the portent of this our new born day.  

Through bog land our companions traversed intent on homeward path. The Sky rose bright. The mountains blue. The waters of reflection now resolved of bloodied-hue. The Comrades of old bade welcomes stood guard on feted shore as Cromwell and his minions sank low into the mire; as we rejoiced in harmony of good fortune and of constitutional lies.

21 secular days come full circle from lonesome collapse guided by skillful surgeries to aid recovery unlike this fallen tree. No heed neither taken nor acquiesced of your insidious cancers now coursing through my brain. The bold-scalpel took away my bowel but enough is still remained to reverse this co-operation in order to prevent such are the insanities of human life and I forsworn in corporeal pain.  Thus cut by stranger-surgeon from midriff unto groin and reversed ‘like’ scooped-out oranges more usually found when one is slowly evolving into a humanoid echo-chambered with attitude; thus now in historical resolve.

 © Séafra Ó Ceallaigh march 05 2013

Alienation of the Singular Parent causation and effect on being found surplus to requirement

Alienation of the Singular Parent causation and effect on being found surplus to requirement

To even suggest there must be equable law to safeguard the human right of all parents rather as is the case in 21^st century Ireland that one parent’s rights over the other exist would be heard at first hearing as wholly deserving on the part of the deemed miscreant former partner; and not simply a jurisprudence proposition in societal fiscal-acquisition.

Guilty as charged until proven innocent? Unfortunately the schematic to assuage such a fanciful notion that the state is against any and/or all notion that the equal right of a parent regardless of gender and/or marital-status be paramount; as lynch-pin of constitution in aspiring democratic Republic.

The family court is little more than a barbaric arena held in camera no witness of defense is allowed nor indeed required by the professional participants in this archaic ritual of post-traumatic break-down of all adult relationship and their garnering of fiscal enhancement; so enjoined in overt deceit?

Paid annually for in millions of borrowed Eurodollars on the whole I might add derived from state-coffer, by the state and for the state. A legalized plunder of wealth, status and exorbitant lifestyle thus afforded further allowed to the minority in society prepared to support the status-quo; ad-infinitum rather than the majority so-affected.

The alienated Father however does not ‘stand accused’ as one may witness in the myriad criminal courts that now abound in modern day Ireland. Indeed no. That would be too easy to contest and result in the right to a lawful defense under the constitution; a constitution sworn in life’s blood to vindicate the life, person, and good name and property rights of every citizen?

BUNREACHT NA hÉIREANN

Articles 40 to 44 of the Irish Constitution provide for 'Fundamental Rights'.

Article 40 extract - Personal rights

•Equality before the law

•Vindicate the life, person, and good name and property rights of every citizen

•Liberty

•Express freely convictions and opinions

•Form associations and unions

But unfortunately the following anomaly only exists for children where their parents are of state-church approved marital status.

3. 1° The State pledges itself to guard with special care the institution of Marriage, on which the Family is founded, and to protect it against attack. 

2° A Court designated by law may grant a dissolution of marriage where, but only where, it is satisfied that  

i. At the date of the institution of the proceedings, the spouses have lived apart from one another for a period of, or periods amounting to, at least four years during the five years, 

ii. There is no reasonable prospect of reconciliation between the spouses, 

iii. such provision as the Court considers proper having regard to the circumstances exists or will be made for the spouses, any children of either or both of them and any other person prescribed by law, and 

iv. Any further conditions prescribed by law are complied with.

Ergo the alienated single-Father stands alone. Any attempt to address the court is summarily dismissed at best practice or at worst are accused of offering up the promulgation of political doctrine; aimed solely to the detriment of attendant judiciary and the imminent downfall of the state. The Alienated Father not simply perceived as a singular lone figure bewildered by ceremony of state in their hitherto private life. The Alienated Father accused without any terms of redress to a contrary state of affairs often mere hours before their perceived commitment of offence during relationship breakdown is then fired into the public domain; most often without notice of forewarning.

The Fundamental Right of Liberty go’s straight out the window. Despite there being no openly perceived criminality on the part of the miscreant-partner they are at the very outset of proceedings warned that to infringe upon the declared outcome of this familial ‘trial’ will result in pecuniary disadvantage and subsequent state-imprisonment of up to one year of detention.

This all before any request by the court for ‘social’ reportage albeit by practitioners of Neuro-linguistic programming (NLP)  whose only qualifications I can ascertain are in hypnotism, sports injury further afforded by a 12 week night-course at Newry College of Further Education in familial mediation. NLP underlying the 'local' practioners 'qualifications' I may add  accredited of one Richard Bandler and a John Grinder NLP created by them in California, USA in the 1970's. The balance of scientific evidence however reveals NLP to be a largely discredited albeit lucrative pseudoscience.

ii. There is no reasonable prospect of reconciliation between the spouses, 

iii. such provision as the Court considers proper having regard to the circumstances exists or will be made for the spouses, any children of either or both of them and any other person prescribed by law, and

iv. Any further conditions prescribed by law are complied with.

The above quote serves only to reinforce the inequality now set before familial-law. To disagree with that contention is to affirm that the ‘single-Father’ is justifiably denied their fundamental human right reinforced by societal decree. Denied as an equable parent from inception of that child’s life, of joint upbringing, of educational, spiritual and love of that life. To be now found as wholly criminal in intent without benefit of equable familial-law, lack of redress when proven innocent and censored with fine and/or state imprisonment. Ego vindicates the life, person, and good name and property rights of every citizen except that of the unmarried, single ex-partner; outside state-church preferred marriage-service and/or regardless of societal wish for sanctioned equable parental-relationship.

© The Misery Industry by Séafra Ó Ceallaigh agus Conor Dignam 2013

BUNREACHT NA hÉIREANN 

http://www.taoiseach.gov.ie/upload/publications/297.pdf

AN COIMISIÚN UM CHEARTA AN DUINE ~ IRISH HUMAN RIGHTS COMMISSION

Promoting & Protecting Human Rights in Ireland

 http://www.ihrc.ie/yourrights/whatarehumanrights/constitution.html

  

The Stranger from Next Door

The Stranger from Next Door

Stranger from a distant shore found alien to his cause. We spoke at length you and me of times long since passed left shrouded by memory and its mournful loss. I know not of the matters in others hands you so erudite explain. The walk thus continued round and about. Day clashed as night fell among the Stars to reveal naught but the rising of yet one more frondescent Moon.

The greeting was wholesome. Genuine, unfettered no burden of the words that were not of your origination provoked my Soul. The hunger thus sated in excise-hall echoed from tribal tongue of highland lass betrayed your solitude of mirth. Grape of vine and leaf of Plant combined to expurgate the distant tone of battles yet unsought. The demon left within concluded your debauchery and altercation devoid of joyous sin.

We sat for a while along the way. Drank coffee but did not smoke cigarettes nor decaffeinated leaf. Safe from the thought of dying and its construct laboured breathing unto death. It was a Saturday night I recall. Youth blossomed abroad upon the neon-lit streets. Long of leg and short of skirt mindful always of its effect. Conversation passed time warped the warm hearth ablaze we stood to demand our rightful ingress.

To the east lay Babylon to the west Connaught to the north lay Hell and to the south lay our indifference of things already of the past. I stood as he did at the top of the stairwell. I turned to the abyss and threaded silk scarf through hook and plaster. I wore the scarf in triumphant will of matters over his mind; and wondered of the fall of Rome.

On mornings light we bade farewell. The rain fell lightly on this holy ground. The Sun rose and the Sun set before the body was discovered next door and dispatched to the morgue oblivious to the presence of a stranger nearby once traveled from distant shore.

© Séafra Ó Ceallaigh 2013

    

Horse-shite as fiscal-commodity NLP and/or will the real George Harold Formby please stand up?

Note: The following missive is not intended as a slight against the horse, the breeders of horses nor indeed gun-slingers who on occasion ride horses robbing banks in Hollywood; many of such dissident-ilk I put pride of place in my facebook profile list of real-time agus elektronik-friend[s].  

Assumption it is said. Is the Mother of all Fuck ups ergo “We assume therefore. We are not.” Many of you who 'say' they are my friends on 'facebook' are really not my friends in any real sense of the word friendship. George Harold Formby does not in-fact exist neither does 'Jeffrey Kelly' although everyone assumes that 'they do' simply because it is 'written' in electronic stone and that imagery set in front of thine very own eyes doth prove 'beyond all reasonable doubt' that they do in 'actuality' exist when 'perceived' by you as a willing member of that 'in the main' uninvited audience; i.e. you who now read these words on 'my' facebook profile?

The majority of facebook ‘social-networkers’ are present by association. If one is perceived by others to be in association with a 'Jeffrey Kelly' that noted overt dissident of 'Gun-dalk' town it follows that “One associates therefore one is” and everyone will look up to 'one' without 'one' having to do so much as 'piss into the wind' to get ones own back; on society or 'whatever' said with popularized *fey accent which thus far in each of ones highly insignificant boring life has stunted ones own developmental issues of self-empowerment; enabling one at the very least not to go 'have a pint'. Albeit without first pleading, begging, cajoling ones wife, partner for permission to do so on a Saturday night? *behaving or talking in very unusual, uninhibited ways that suggest possible psychiatric disorder

Therefore; we the People must not agree with a George Harold Formby! Why? Because he and his fancy ideas of reality, freedom, self-empowerment, truth, justice, equable human-rights and failure to ‘Keep his gob shut!’ etc. etc. on just about every issue known to the Humanoid throughout the Planet you chose to call ‘Mother Earth’ is by ‘association’ a fucking big No-No! I shit you not, Earthlings.  

But I digress; this tale of the Pilgrim is not about you. It is about me? It is more specifically about third-party perceptions of who it is 'I am supposed to be' in the real-time. How can anyone know me when even I do not know?

Take for example a pile of horse-shite emanate of Equus ferus caballus. No matter how hard one shovels. The pile of horse-shite remains high upon this holier-than-thou ground we inhabit during those transient four score years plus ten. It doesn’t get any better especially for the horse either. It won’t get any better. It can’t get any better. Life as they used to ascribe to in the 1960’s ‘Is shite and then you die.’ The answer of course lays in the soil. Whack a few Roses in the flower-bed of life with copious amounts of eco-crap and you end up with at least a tuneful promise of a rose-garden like no other before and/or since.

The promise of horse-shite regardless of its one obvious limitation is boundless it is not something one can after all is said and done eat unless one is French then all one has to do is bypass the shite covering the European landscape and fire the tasty-fucker into the nearest stereotypical ‘frog’ type cooking-pot and Pierre is your uncle?

Horse-shite evolves quite naturally throughout contemporary society if left well alone to promulgate. This evolution takes on many forms and guises to fool the unwary citizen during its initial incubation growth and subsequent development into maturity. You may innocently ask a child what it is they want to be when they grow up. Normal-kids will reply “I want to be myself” - “I want to be a Lunatic” - “I want to be an Artist” - “I want to be a Clown”.  Odd-kids borne of horse-shite aka Dobbin over there will however respond with “I want to be like the politician that likes my father” - “I want to be like the Priest who likes my brother” - “I want to be corrupt like Daddy who doesn’t like anyone.” And so-on and so-forth until you get the picture.

In conclusion: Any passing sanitation engineer will attest to the following truism “Horse-shite like Cows-cream will always float to the top of your breakfast bowl” A final word of caution Comrades. We are dealing with forces not only beyond our band-width of innate-intelligence but we are faced with the most god-almighty stench of state-church-societal corruption in the whole of the known World the Universe and Everything! Ergo we must fart much louder and be far more proud to do so in 2013.

© Séafra Ó Ceallaigh 2013

Addendum: The above literary style of writing is not original i.e. the use of the whole of the alphabet + vowels is due to many influences since my skill @ joined-up writing became apparent in circa. 1958.

But is mainly to the erudite, succinct and entirely to their point of influence of the literary genius behind See Change Coaching Practice Dundalk those high quality Family Mediation and Family Services  that are Neuro-linguistic programming *NLP Master Practitioners (Certified by Dr. Richard Bandler) with backgrounds in Sport and Social Care respectively. Thus qualified and in the employ of the Family-court in Dundalk who on occasion write reports for the courts on whether or not one is deemed fit to participate in the life of ones children. Simply because ones former-partner says so without one shred of legal evidence to the contrary. Despite the scenario known similarly to myriad Dads in abject-misery as with my case having spent the previous 13 agus 16 years ensuring the utmost care, love, safety and responsibility toward the positive, physical, mental agus spiritual upbringing; and happy productive and creatively constructive lives to my daughters.

*Neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) is a discredited approach to communication, personal development, and psychotherapy created by Richard Bandler and John Grinder in California, USA in the 1970s. The title asserts a connection between the neurological processes (‘neuro’), language ("linguistic"), and behavioural patterns learned through experience (‘programming’) that proponents speculate can be changed to achieve specific goals in life.

PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT

In September 2011 my Children were stolen from me whilst I lay disadvantaged then as now Terminally-ill with Throat-Cancer. The Oncology Social Worker Department at the Beaumont Hospital albeit unknowingly alongside the aegis of Family Court in Dundalk colluded in this singular familial deception. Thus resultant in my being furnished an arbitrary barring order from my family home the day of my discharge onto the streets of Dublin for a period of two years. Eviction more precisely to the bus-stop outside the hospital with no access to cash money; as my 'joint' bank accounts had been emptied the previous evening by persons known and/or unknown. This soulless discharge from so-called Health Executive Service HSE care via the Oncology Department at the Beaumont Hospital was commissioned and put into effect solely by mere unsubstantiated gossip, hearsay and slanderous accusation ergo without one shred of evidence being forwarded by the appellate nor asked of me to the contrary and/or any reputable referee on my behalf.

It is now my intention to bring the matter into the Peoples forum for adjudication by the People not simply on my own behalf but also for that of lawful provision of benefit to the People and its constitution. Inclusive of and notwithstanding those myriad other alienated parents so affected by the iniquities of gendered state judiciary and its innate bias toward the male partner in personal adult relationship breakdown in this or any matriarchal power based society. Particularly one so embroiled as is the Republic of Ireland long governed by dogmatic foreign religiosity that in essence perceives the female of the species as alien and our children long before conception as commodity. At one revered mother figure immediately at odds with that religion through its educational stranglehold on the male spousal counterpart thus sanctified and further endorsed by such ingrates infected; as inexpensive street whore.

Today it is Christmas Day 2012. I sit alone at the table of celebratory feast of Jesus born without child. I like he ostracized by the very society that willingly condemned his body to suffer the indignity of crucifixion and ultimate corporeal death. A revolutionary mind alien in concept still to the majority of good roman citizens. A Jew who authored the bible with which you now thump your craw in times of fiscal famine; the search of its truth long since abandoned to the vagarious of your survival. Survival above that of all other species long bartered as human slave and fodder in sure and uncertain hope of your resurrection long since past into time and pointless histories.

It matters not the consequence of my nor your action only that of inaction. The People now gather in the Halls of Mochta. A new golden age of enlightenment is upon us. The dawn of Republic is no longer virtual, a fragile concept, an aberration of dissent it will soon defeat and then make whole the Peoples sovereign Republic; that defeat now ensconced firmly in penultimate conclusion. As is the long awaited homecoming of all my children.

© Séafra Ó Ceallaigh December 25^th 2012

Dads Justice International

© Beyond Monastic musings in Mochta's halls ~ In paradisum deducant te Angeli

 

The Hall of Mochta

 

EQUABLE PARENTAL RIGHTS vs BEHAVOURAL MODIFICATION an observation

EQUABLE PARENTAL RIGHTS vs BEHAVOURAL MODIFICATION an observation

‘To modify behavior, good behavior must be reinforced and poor behavior must be punished. The fundamentals of behavior modification can be used to increase desired behaviors in any individual, regardless of functional level. For example, an individual who wants to quit smoking cigarettes, or a parent who wants her child to consistently make the bed, may use behavioral techniques to help achieve those goals.’

THE WAY FAMILY COURT WORKS fastrack

The 10 stages of applying for custody guardianship access through the family in-camera judicial system.

First you will stand alone in court wholly ignored.
Second you will be told to sit down and to keep quite.
Third muttering will be heard then an adjournment will be announced.
Fourth a local ‘social workers’ report is ordered re: your suitability as an ex-partner. Not as you will ‘think’ your suitability as an equal parent.
Fifth you will be ordered to come back in three months and attend an anger management course for your own good.
Sixth you will attend the ‘local’ court-approved* Neuro-Linguistic Programming Hypnotist.
Seven you will receive a tummy-tickle for good behaviour and not be given a reach around for bad behaviour.
Eight your so-called psychological report will be read out in court three months later.
Nine everyone will burst out sniggering oblivious you will listen intently to this quasi-psychological jargon all the while observing the ‘what did I tell you look’ on your X’s face.
Ten you will be told to come back in three months.    

See Change Practice* Coaching versus Counseling

Counseling pays a lot of attention to a perceived ‘problem’ in a person’s life and focuses on the effect of the past on the present – on the event which has caused you to feel the way you do about yourself and life at present and about resolving your feelings with the tragedy or trauma. Coaching differs from counseling in that the focus is more on finding solutions, the here and now and on the future rather than dwelling on the past. Because of this goals and behavioural patterns tend to come more under the spotlight. Also, in coaching there is a more equal balance of power between the coach and their client than would appear usual in a patient/therapist relationship.

Many coaches, including ourselves use NLP to assist their clients make the changes they desire. Neuro-Linguistic Programming provides a tool-box of techniques which enable people to make these changes easily and rapidly.

Maurice Kelly and Berni McGuill (See Change Partners) are accredited Family Mediators (Friarylaw), certified CMA Life Coaches and NLP Master Practitioners (Certified by Dr. Richard Bandler)* with backgrounds in Sport and Social Care respectively.

Dr. Richard Bandler* "The effectiveness of my Strategic Mind Messaging™ sessions increases significantly when combined with the augmented light and sound technology of BrainFit.

Richard Bandler, co-developer of NLP, also known as Neuro-Linguistic Programming, conducts NLP seminars, NLP workshops, and NLP training seminars internationally. He continually develops new human change technologies.

Richard Bandler's seminars & workshops include Neuro-Hypnotic Repatterning™, Design Human Engineering®, Persuasion Engineering®, Personal Enhancement, Charisma Enhancement®, Hypnosis, and others.

Description

Neurolinguistic programming (NLP) is aimed at enhancing the healing process by changing the conscious and subconscious beliefs of patients about themselves, their illnesses, and the world. These limiting beliefs are "reprogrammed" using a variety of techniques drawn from other disciplines including hypnotherapy and psychotherapy.

Origins

NLP was originally developed during the early 1970s by linguistics professor John Grinder and psychology and mathematics student Richard Bandler, both of the University of California at Santa Cruz. Studying the well-known psychotherapist Virginia Satir, the hypnotherapist Milton Erickson, the anthropologist Gregory Bateson, and others whom they considered "charismatic superstars" in their fields, Grinder and Bandler identified psychological, linguistic and behavioral characteristics that they said contributed to the greatness of these individuals.

Research and general acceptance

Although some physicians and mental health practitioners employ principles of neurolinguistic programming, the field is generally considered outside of mainstream medical practice and academic thinking.

Precautions

NLP is particularly popular in the self-improvement and career-development fields, and some trainers and practitioners have little experience in its use for healing.

Neurolinguistic programming,

A complementary therapeutic strategy based on the premise that thought is a representation of sensory experience and that behavior can be modified to achieve a desired result by changing the patient's thought patterns and mental strategies to give the patient more choices in problem solving. It is used for behavior modification and the management of psychosomatic disorders and stress.

Mosby's Medical Dictionary, 8th edition. © 2009, Elsevier.

© Various electronic sources

© Séafra Ó Ceallaigh an observation 2012

Dr. Richard Bandler Co-Founder of Neuro-Linguistic Programming

Maurice Kelly and Berni McGuill See Change Partners

Eald is þes eorðsele under actreo ergo an old earth cell beneath an oak tree

Eald is þes eorðsele under actreo ergo an old earth cell beneath an oak tree

Ic þis giedd wrece bi me ful geomorre, minre sylfre sið. Ic þæt secgan mæg hwæt ic yrmþa gebad siþþan ic up [a]weox, niwes oþþe ealdes, no ma þonne nu; a ic wite wonn minra wræcsiþa.

Anonymous 960-990 AD

In a thousand years nothing has changed. The human condition remains the same. I live alone not through choice but by familial decree. Exiled in kinship I walk the streets alone. In sadness I sing of myself now longer accessed of neither hill nor headland in guardianship of the tribal seas. The Sun that I traverse is infinite and leads full circle far beyond the grave. Such isolation derived of stone once borne by water etched now with exhalation tormented further; fore-sworn  as inherent of sin. The hermit will succumb to those entreaties, of state, of church and contemplate 'err long into the dark and frozen light of your encapsulated dawn.

The iron fashioned by the artisan prevails in torment of this fragile assemblage of soul the exclusion of which is then made complete. The gavel strikes. The chains embrace. The deed completes. I lay down my weary head. The phantasmal at the feast.

The hallowed walls of which we speak consumed. Blue chromaticity of light. Bereft of cosmic time. Of wintered fire. Denied the ritual of life banished, silenced; the earthworm tutored in speech is then struck dumb.  However; the erstwhile maggot pristine in silvered Armor though baited on hook will demand its payment in full.

I seek out only the pagan traveler of northern waters sailed with striped cloth and tempestuous wind in search of clan devoid of ice-flow, flood and encroaching plurality.

The dark age falls upon Rome once more, banished, surplus to requirement of heaven and/or hell.   Memory at odds with tradition full circle regains balance and fortitude of renewed beginnings. The golden age of enlightenment spews forth nacreous indulgence of a truth. A truth long harbored in mind and soul albeit obscured by mist and ritual in appeasement of your chosen messiah. Freedom speaks of struggle, of tortured body, of sin, of corporeal regret; but neither of word nor deed. The gilded sword sacrosanct fired with steel to cleave the unjust without compassion is told a lie in the hands of the pilgrim.

The pilgrim in search of a truth. Innate truths fundamental to human existence denied by its prefabrication of civilization proved alien by the shadow mongers in dominance of control. The barricade has small purpose in barbed-wire, in surveillance, in soulful retreat, as the hoards amass to defend the gates of hell. I turn my achromatic hide toward the blinding Sun to endure the energies of rebirth survived of destruction and disease. Transmogrified into being by your callous thought   and misrepresentations of my progeny.

The slave market thus thrives become commodity you endure in darkness become afraid at the thought of crucifixion and will acquiesce with outstretched palms. The children have gone trafficked then as now in search of Caesars coin and its amazement.

We are told this is the way of light. That we should live in a truth. A truth not of our own making. A truth not of knowledge. A truth compiled in covert diligence of others. Beset as before and ordered to conclusion on foreign made shore. I attest my trials now confessed. The warlord thus thrives. I among them rejoice in blood, skin and bone; but not upon your wounded flesh in defense of a truth. The barbarian is remained content within on prospect of the dawn. The myriad loves made more tangible in procreation equally sired without regret. The gathering of souls, of ritual, of slaughter, of opulence, of sharing, of defense, of tribe, of life.

© Séafra Ó Ceallaigh 07 December 2012